I Cannot Prosecute… What Now?

What do survivors do when they cannot prosecute? It is a far more common problem than facing a full trial and we don't have other systems to hold predator's accountable. It deserves mention in the process but I have read little about the problem. People talk about how few sexual abuse and assault cases make … Continue reading I Cannot Prosecute… What Now?

Unpacking a Rapist’s Rationalizations

Will has admitted what he did to me. He's admitted to blackmailing me. He's admitted to raping me on two separate occasions. He's even attempted to make it look like he was making amends for what he had done. But after I finally snapped at him once and for all when I had full blown-not … Continue reading Unpacking a Rapist’s Rationalizations